If you’re a female and have been using vibrators and dildos without that boyfriend of yours for some time, then you will want to read what we have to say! If you’re a guy that has been dying to get your girl interested in some extra bed room playtime, this article is also for you. Playing with your partner and sex toys can be quite the adventure. Sometimes couples avoid getting toys because they don’t even know where to start. Rabbits, dildos, strap-on, butterfly vibrator, hearing all of those names might sound confusing!
The best way to find a toy that works for both of you is to look together. This can be quite fun, and for some other couples it might be a little uncomfortable. Since there are now tons of stores online you can sit together comfortable and search in the privacy of your own home. Don’t be overwhelmed when looking at the sex stores; try to imagine what the toy would be like for both of you. You might just find that dream butterfly vibrator.
To get more ideas on what you can try, why not watch videos or rent something together. Seeing how the toy actually works might be helpful. Watching a video together is very good if you are trying to convince your partner to use a toy. At times the other person might be nervous if they lack experience in the toy world.
I would say 99% of the toys are best used for foreplay. For the most part bullets, dildos, and other types of vibrators might be difficult to hold during sexual intercourse. However, there are a few toys that I could suggest that can actually be used during intercourse. One is the lovely butterfly vibrator. This just slips on and will stay attached to your clit during automatic masturbators, which can be very stimulating. I have also seen another type of toy called We Vibe, which is an interesting concept that would vibrate between the vaginal walls to create intense sensations. For men, I would suggest trying cock rings to extend the length of intercourse for both of you.
As for men there are plenty of other toys we can try if your guy is more interested. You can find a lot of different male sex toys online, it’s really up to what your limits are. My number one suggestion for finding that perfect couple’s sex toy, whether it be a p-spot toy, bullet, or rabbit vibrator, get the one that makes you feel the most comfortable.